As a co-founder of the Every Other Thursday blog, I’ve felt extremely guilty as of late as it’s been a few months since I’ve penned anything in this space.

My last post outlined the big changes I’ve had in my life the past three months. Just to get you caught up: accepted a great new job, moved my family to Kansas from San Diego.

The past few months have been a blur. Between taking on a new job and moving the family, there hasn’t been time to write. I’ve missed it and besides my EOT brethren shouldering the load while I was gone, fellow co-founder Curtis Silver has also been extremely patient with my lack of contributions over at Technorati.

Through all of it, I was prioritizing correctly. God and family always come first, followed by my career and then my writing. But the time away has made me realized how much I miss the writing. By putting thoughts in this space, on Technorati, and my own blog, I’m able to get more clarity. I also hear from many of you which always helps with perspective.


The move and all of the challenges have certainly been a stress on just about everything. But as is usually the case, demanding times and high amounts of anxiety eventually lead you to see again just how important your family is to your sanity. Without my wife and my kids, I can’t imagine who I could have made it the past few months. At the same time, knowing that I’ve yanked them 1700 miles across the country for an opportunity also has its only special pressure.

Through it all, everyone has been resilient. It marks as a reminder that you’d be surprised at how much change is sometimes the best opportunity for your family. You’d think kids would be resistant to change and being taken away from support network but they are not. We could learn a lot from our kids about challenging our comfort zone and going out and taking on calculated risks.

For me and my family, the move has been a great change for all of us despite all of the stress and unknowns. It’s all worked out as our new community has been overwhelmingly welcoming and quick to help us adjust. We left some great people back in San Diego, but the difference between the hustle and bustle of Southern California and the down-home realism of suburban Kansas City is huge. And we’re loving it.

The move has created a bunch of different stories, reflections and new questions that I’ll turn into posts here on EOT over the next several weeks.

It’s good to be back. It’s good to be writing again with such a great bunch of Dads.

Hold on, the ride going into 2011 should be a blast.